Today. Right now, It is important to not care about what other people think. Especially in your twenties. This phase in your life is a decade full of mistakes and opportunities. Letting other people navigate your perception is stopping that process.
“We hide behind masks to show people a version of ourselves that was tailored just for them.”
I think that it is okay to experiment. It’s okay to wear a variety of masks, as long as you stay true to you. and, I do believe the more time we spend overthinking our looks, weight, rules, attitudes, work, and relationships. The less we are actually DOING. And yes, life can be a little complicated but that’s just what life throws at us. The reason why I’m writing this is because, I too, have had a mental road block. I was self-conscious of how others thought of me. I spent time thinking about scenarios over and over. And that was time not well spent. Since then, I’ve trashed that negative outlook all together.
It’s time to be doubt free. You know what is right for you. And sometimes it may not be evidently right in front of you, but you do know and understand your wants & needs. And if by chance, you don’t – start doing things to help you discover them.
My advice is to step outside of that comfort zone. Take that leap of faith. Go on that road trip. Try that new look. Change your attitude. Embrace everything new. And do not be afraid to show all your beautiful colours.
Ruffle Top – Aerie
Trousers – Marciano
Handbag – Guess?
Boots – Clarks Shoes
Watch – Michael Kors
Until next time,
Putting yourself first can be hard. So is being superwoman. A career, a personal and a social life – giving all your attention to everything generously is a lot to manage. but, it’s okay to take time just for you. It’s okay to be unapologetic when you need a day off. Self-care isn’t anything new. And it can be the most minute thing(s).
Self-care is not being selfish. it is a way to take a moment to say “Hey, I need to look after me, because I’m responsible for my happiness and well being.” The one person you should never neglect is YOU. When is the last time you took a self-care day? A day devoted to rejuvenating your mood, your health, your inspirations – you. There are many ways you can implement self-care on a daily basis. What keeps you motivated, gets you to smile, or laugh, those are self-care things.
Some daily things you can do,
Log off social media
Make a cup of tea
Learn something new
Re-watch a favorite TV show or movie.
Make a playlist
Chat with someone
Write your goals
Take a stroll outdoors
Nobody can do it all. And it’s not a requirement. Developing a deeper understanding of self is a strong asset to have and you can do that by practicing self-care. It can have any shape or form because it is created for you, by you. Whatever your self-care routine looks like, it will differ from mine, and from someone else’s. Just remember to be kind, to be grateful and to stay positive. You’re worth it.
Jeans – Levis Jeans
Dress – Urban Planet (worn as a top)
Belt – Thrifted
Until next time,
The struggle of winter is here. I call it the winter-wardrobe syndrome. It is that tine of year when I want to rewind and have summer back. Winters in Toronto fluctuate. Some winters are horribly cold and slushy, others mild and cozy. This becomes a problem for fashion forward people.
What do you wear to look fashionable but that allows you to keep warm ? I find it difficult. A couple of weeks back, some friends and I went to a warehouse sale in Mississauga. I came back with such amazing items but they were not necessarily “Winter ready”.
This week Dua Lipa was having a concert and I wanted to style these high waisted sport pants, that is when I got stumped. I wanted to style an outfit in a certain way but I needed to be conscious of the weather. In this outfit, I styled these pants with a lacey black tank top and my signature booties from Clarks (I wore a winter coat on top of this). Dua Lipa was AMAZING! Let me know how you dress for the colder season.
Tank top – vintage/thrift.
Pants – Guess?
Backpack – H&M
Until next time,
in a state of peaceful happiness.
“She seemed more content, less bitter”
Today I thought that I would chat about happiness. At this moment if someone were to ask me if there is something I want or need, I would say no. In complete honesty, I am very happy. But as human beings our minds are constantly trying to find problems. And the people around us do it too.
So even though I am very happy in my life, my dearest friends, family and peers have asked me questions similar to these; Have you thought of a career change? How are you still single? Should you move house? Should you be making more money? Should you be doing more? The list goes on…
Everyone is looking for the next step. Everyone has this habit of creating a void when there isn’t one. Everyone needs to STOP. Let’s start being advocates of contentment. Embrace the present and be in the moment. If you are happy, learn to enjoy it. And if you are unhappy, have the courage to change it.
Dress by Leith
Shoes from the Fergalicious Collection
Watch by Michael Kors
Until next time,
Today I’m visiting the subject of wearing glasses and how to style them. For all those who did not know, I wear glasses. Although I’m stubborn and do not wear my glasses on a daily basis, they do become a part of my outfit. I have worn my glasses for about 4 years now and I continue to love them. But sometimes I think it would nice to have a few pairs to select from. My glasses are rectangular shape with a tortoise patterned frame from Versace eyewear.
I find it fun choosing sunglasses as I can have many different styles at a variety of prices. Even then, I have maybe four pairs of sunglasses. Recently, I thought that I should open the door and start shopping online. I have never taken interest to it before, but it seems that you can find really cool items that are available exclusively online. A co-worker of mine wears glasses daily and he probably has a dozen different styles to choose from and I’m always so envious! They look really awesome tbh!
On my search, I came across Warby Parker, an online retailer who offers high-quality eyewear at a fraction of the price. Here are some of my top picks.
Firstly, these women are stunning. I love the photography of these images and the frames are very fashion forward. I love the ADDIE in Magnolia because they are similar to the ones that I wear already but have a more modern frame. As for sunglasses, I love the RAGLAN because of the cool rose gold lenses!
My co-worker and online shopping has inspired me to add different pairs of eyewear to my future lookbooks. So stay tuned for more posts that include eyewear and how to style them!
until next time,
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What an incredible week! From discovering new eateries (the Pie Comission), to going to concerts (Catfish and The Bottlemen), attending house parties and catching up with friends, this was an eventful week. We are in the month of May but it seems like Toronto missed the memo. It has not been the best weather with cold and rainy temperatures. And sometimes it creates a mood of laziness that is physically draining.
But with friends coming back from vacation and finishing school, I have been out of the house for most of the week. Saturday was reserved for a long awaited date night catching up with a friend over sushi (yum!). I love this flowy red-lace top from Dynamite that I paired with simple black leggings from Garage, and my black booties by Clarks.
On our date night, we got talking about our summer memories and how much we’re READY for beach days again. And you know for most girls who like shopping for shoes or beauty, I LOVE shopping for swimwear (I own like 7 swimsuits). And especially now when there are so many styles to choose from!
Adore Me is a great place to begin as they have extensive collections that have an array of sizes for every body type. I personally love the Dallys two piece swimsuit- its so flattering and sexy! Another favourite is this fiery red bikini!
If you are a swimwear addict like me- check out Adore Me! You can get $10 off by using the code SWIMSET10 on any Swimwear (VIP/PAYG orders).
Until next time,
Spring weather is finally here but to be honest I am ready to sprint into summer. I want to wear dresses and ditch my winter jacket asap.
This month is a full schedule between birthdays, holidays, and work. So today is a quick outfit post.
Coat from Value Village
Jeans from Old Navy
Shirt from The Bay
Cardigan from Guess?
Boots from from Winners
until next time,